How the Relationship Program works
Know the statistics
There is a reason why in the United States people who are married have about a 50% chance of staying married. They do not identify the problem that they are having at home and intervene early enough to avoid more damage. Here are some reasons why people struggle with their marriage or partnership:
* No quality time together
* No intimacy
* Incompatibility: Not equal interest for intimacy
* Infidelity
* You will not go to counseling
* Uneven division of chores at home
* Drug or alcohol problems
* Money issues
* Lack of communication
Identify the problem
If one of the partners can identify the problem in the relationship and convince the other that there is a challenge/problem and if you both agree, that is the first step to healing the relationship. Once you identify the problem now you can strategize and develop a plan that you both agree on.
Come up with a plan
You can either schedule a time to meet with a couple's therapist or you can work on your relationship yourselves. Once you download the DiY Intervention relationship program, you can sit down with your partner and start going through the self-guided early intervention on your relationship. The program allows you to work through your issues and challenges together on your own time and at your own pace.
It's time to meet
You can follow the download on your computer, or print it out, or read it off your phone. We give you the early intervention modules to begin the opportunity of working through your particular issues and challenges.
Date night
When you have date night (possibly one time per week), you can include the DiY Intervention program as part of your time together. The DiY program has 10 modules that guide you through relationship opportunities that can help you to heal, sustain and even thrive in your relationship. The opportunity to do-it-yourself is a great opportunity.
What's changed?
Remember when you were dating or newly married how things were going very smoothly? Things change in the relationship when something new is added such as a baby. An additional family member or another situation in life (positive or negative) can have effects on your relationship as a couple. So the earlier you are able to intervene on your relationship the better chances of success will be with you.